Everywhere in the manosphere, men obsess over virgins like they’re some sort of magical unicorns that have healing powers and can tell the future. Everywhere, the refrain of “MARRY A VIRGIN” rings out like a catechism.
But realistically, most men, and I include Christian men in this, don’t care if they marry a woman who is a virgin on their wedding night. They only care that she is a virgin at the time they begin dating. I think the majority of Christian men, if they were honest with themselves, are happy to marry non-virgins, so long as the non-virgin is their non-virgin.