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This works well as a decision matrix. The strategy of seeking slutty girls for sex weakly dominates the strategy of seeking virtuous girls, regardless of looks. Who knew?
Lover of Wisdom–
Basically it’s just a ~sexy~ way of saying “selection bias.” Ha.
“Where have all the good women gone?”
Didn’t we just hear this in reverse, from one Kay Hymowitz that set the manosphere ablaze?
While I am generally in agreement with much of the Gameosphere’s intellectual conclusions, sometimes the hypocrisy is unbearable.
One gender sleeps around a lot with the pump and dump scene, and then wonders where all the good spouses have gone. Gee that sounds familiar… oh wait. Nevermind.
(Disclaimer: I am not calling Haley a hypocrite.)
Hahaha, excellent.